Merry Christmas!!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

I know I have neglected to keep you informed for more than a week on my hair journey and JBCO challenge. I am a single mother and the holiday season moves pretty fast! Those who do visit and view my posts regularly, I thank you for continuing to hold me accountable. 

That said, I have neglected in JBCO applications, but not enough to forfeit challenge. I've only found that my protective style of mini twists posed a little challenge in applying for some part, the other part, motherhood and making baby happy :-) So, being "creative" in maintenance.

All in all, 'Tis the reason for the season that we remember how our Lord, Jesus Christ, was born, so that he would grow to become our savior and salvation, our King. Be merry in the celebration of his birth and worship Him everlasting Joy! Amen!

~ Miss EM

JBCO Challenge Day 9 Into Day 10, and Day 11

That's right. Challenge day 9 rolled into Challenge day 10! The day was a wonderful long day with Sunday school, church service and kids play day. I don't know what got into me. I just decided I was going to put my hair up into small twists and see how it looked. Little did I know that, doing them by myself, was going to take all night, all the next day, and leave me with a very, very, VERY sore neck and back on day 11.

Im not going to say it was a mistake, but i'm sure you are thinking 'why didn't she get some help?' or 'she should have known better'. After a point, I was thinking these same things and then some. But I take it all as a learning curve. In my youth, I never needed anything to motivate me to stay up all night, so never really bothered me that sleep was absolutely necessary. 

Well, in my 'old age', sleep is very much necessary! I wanted twists. I didn't want the project to take me many days to do because I knew, eventually (and lazy enough or too many distractions), I would take it all down because what I had started and slept on would get all fuzzy and dull looking before I began on the next section. And it would probably be days or even weeks before I took to task again. Besides, I can do my daughter's and my mom's hair quickly and in just a couple/few hours. How hard can it be?

HARD!!!

When I do do my mom and daughter's hair its usually twists with some sort of thickness to them so I can be done quickly and not fuss with a squirmy worm or fussy bitty. And their hair is pretty much even length all around. Another reason I felt curious I could do small twists all across my head.

Well, with enough thinking about it, taking kids home, put to bed, and all chores pretty much done, I just got started. I grabbed my little dish of JBCO, grab my brush-like comb (has 3 rows, hard teeth), several hair clips, my laptop and set up at my dining room table, and got to work. To keep me entertained, I streamed a series of SyFy 'Eureka' episodes, figuring I would be done by the time the last episode ran. Whole hearted NOT!

But, I digress. I sectioned my hair into four sections: back, front, and ears. The cross-point I placed high up, almost right on top of, my head. I started twisting with the back, getting the hardest part out of the way, debated which ear was the next hardest, and finished with the front. With each section I divided into rows, oiled and massaged the row with JBCO, then split that row into smaller sections, one at a time. I used my fingers and nails to stretch and smooth out hair, working tangles and knots out to the end. Sometimes I would get a small dip of JBCO to help in the process if I felt there wasn't enough residual already. After working knots to ends, I would use my special comb to work the knots out, then began the twisting. I applied some more JBCO on the twist ends and just twirled and twirled. I guess this is sealing the ends? I did this for my entire head! 

I didn't lose a lot of hair. Which was kinda interesting. The back of my hair seemed to experience just breakage while the ears and top experienced whole strands. All together the ends of my twists are just a little fuzzy and the hair loss came to the size of a small bouncy ball or soda bottle cap.  

I would assume this kind of twisting is considered a dry-twist, because I did not wet my hair in anyway. I'm not used to doing my hair in such an intense fashion. Yes, I have done twists to my own hair before and those turned out bulky, disproportionate, dry, and fuzzy looking when done. Its kinda difficult to sport that with some confidence :\ Especially if the entire back of your hair is short and the sides and top of your head have various lengths of long hair. Just let me have the basic wet, comb, headband process any day and I would be fine. 

Although the motivation to finish and get my hair done took many, many, many long hours (36 hrs, to be exact) and technique perhaps contributed, my hair is done. The payoff results are GREAT! 

Day 11~ Guess what? I slept all day! But woke with pain all through my neck, shoulders and back. Surprised my tush is alright. My head, of course, is a little itchy. We finally got a cold front that sticks, so massaging a small spot with a cold finger does the trick, lol. 

I want to try and trim the ends of my twists and reseal with JBCO. It will be a 'feel as you go' for the back and some of sides and top, the rest I will get to see the results. I hope it goes well!

JBCO Challenge Day 7 & Day 8

Day 7~ I was feeling good and cute today :-} Now, i'm in Texas and the Summer dresses are still out, so I put one of my new ones on. Diva! LOC'd it up, hair clipped two flat pony tails to the top of my head and handled business for my day! Boo Yaaah! Still sick, but i'm makin' it! For bed, I took my clips out and put on my bonnet. Day over.

Day 8, Week 2 KCCM Check In!~ 

I had just barely woken up and got moving when my neighbor's daughter came over extending an invitation for a shopping day,,, "leave in 20 minutes." Somehow the word "shopping" works better than a cup of coffee, because we 'moved'!

Washed, dressed, spritzed my hair and clipped in my pigtails. I don't think I remembered to do my castor oil application, but with what little I do feel in my hair and all the moisture retained, I didn't find it a problem. 

I want to avoid an every other day topical application and get back to the scalp and roots, just to get the cleansing process out of the way and done with.

Now for the Week 2 Check-In, here's how I answered:

1. Where do you live?

Manor, TEXAS!

2. Are other members of your family naturals too? Who? Were they natural before you or vice versa? Do you all support each other?

Yes, my mother. She went natural after I did only because I had gone from relaxing to hotcombing my hair and she had like the results of my hair. I dont know about supporting each other, but do know that we just do what we can for the times.

3. How did you use Castor Oil in your hair last week (week 1)

day 1~ I applied straight to my scalp and twisted hair. 

day2~ I applied to sectioned parts (scalp), edges and eyebrows

day3~ no castor oil application, massaged itchy spots *wish i got warning about cleansing 1st*

day4~ pre-poo w/ my oil mix (itch relief!), ACV rinse & DC/Protein treatment; LOC method with castor oil for my oil

day 5~ no application, but surprised of hair moisture

day 6/7~ repeat of LOC method

4. (optional) Share a pic of the bottle of castor oil you are using. *I did supply my pic*

I am still excited and enjoying this challenge. The first week was hard as far as a regimen and maintenance. But as I mentioned, the education I have learned recently and understanding how I have already been partial in the LOC method practice, has made implementing the challenge a little bit easier. This coming week I hope to focus more on my scalp, getting this castor oil cleansing in progress and on track.

Tonight, i'm just going to put my bonnet on and call it a night. Ponder whether to twist my hair up sometime tomorrow while deciding where to put my Christmas tree.

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These little thoughts of mine help to understand why I have to do things the way I do them. It may be a bit OCD, but educating, teaching, and learning the how to the why of it makes easier to implement.. Since we gals like to 'share', I like to know what i'm talking about and not steer wrong. ;-p

Thank you for viewing and Take Back Your Mane Control! ~ 

Miss EM

JBCO Challenge Day 5 & Day 6

Day 5~ I didn't do anything for day 5. Home sick all day.

Day 6~ I pretty much did a LOC method before running out to do errands.

I spritzed my hair with Aloe Vera Juice (AVJ) and water, rubbed about nickel size amount of JBCO in my hands and rubbed into my hair in a kind of section/layered process and massaged in. I finished with my Cantu Shea leave-in conditioner, wrapped with a satin scarf then went about my day.

Normally, when getting ready to head out, I just wet or spritz my hair with water; pick, brush, or comb through my hair to style; then slap on a headband and be done. I would end up having major shrinkage or lots of frizz. Not to mention, a great deal of breakage and shedding. 

The past few months that I have been researching how to better care for our (my daughter and mine) natural hair, the more I discovered I was doing so much wrong and harm to my hair and learned many styles I could practice with her hair, keeping our regular routines simple, practical, and practice-able. 

Being introduced to and learning the LOC method, I found my regular get up and go method could still be maintained with only a couple additional steps. Knowing now how important moisture is, I no longer dread starting the comb out of my hair. 
The moisture helps the hair to absorb and utilize the natural oils, in my opinion, helping the hair to better repair itself instead of how other oils that aren't so good, plug holes and cracks in follicles,  adding no real benefit except maybe shininess. Adding a cream/butter (thick) base on top of that helps to prevent moisture from evaporating too quickly allowing your hair to transition accordingly to our daily ever changing environment.

These little thoughts of mine help to understand why I have to do things the way I do them. It may be a bit OCD, but educating, teaching, and learning the how to the why of it makes easier to implement. Since we gals like to 'share', I like to understand what i'm talking about and not steer wrong. ;-p

Thank you for viewing and Take Back Your Mane Control! ~
Miss EM

JBCO Challenge Day 3 & Day 4

Day 3~ No additional application today. Scalp had been itchy, different spots, all day. I tried carefully to be delicate in scratching, then remembered scratching can leave scars on the scalp for germs so resorted to massaging the areas. I can still feel the slickness of the castor oil in my hair, probably on the shafts themselves. I think massaging helps to redistribute the oil to my scalp. Still, I've chosen not to do anything to my head. Twists are holding their own, but feel a bit looser. Roots are showing some definite curl definition. Is my hair growing already?

Day 4~ Woke up to an itchy head! Massaging grants me the most relief. While the house is empty, something has to be done today.

I have some left over oil mix that i will use as a pre-poo. I have CD's Tui Herbal Shampoo, which I find (any shampoo, really) to be a great clarifier to remove any build up gently.

I have my shower spray bottle filled with ACV rinse. I haven't used the ACV rinse for a long while and think i'm quite overdue. My mix is heavily concentrated with ACV, like half H2O and half ACV. Rule of thumb, 2/3 H2O, 1/3 ACV. 

I have a DC/Protein recipe from YouTube Channel Naptural85. It consists of:

2 eggs

6 scoops of mayo

2 T honey

It's pretty basic and I will apply after my ACV rinse. After that, a simple LOC method where my oil will be my castor oil. So, i'm ready to get started!

Results (as I go):

1. Applied my oil mix and instant cool relief of the itching! My applicator bottle with nozzle tip helped to get right under my twists, just massaged the oil in, put on a plastic and foil caps and let sit for 15-20 minutes while making my DC mix. Excellent.

2. ACV rinse was deeply gratifying for my itchy spots. My scalp feels fully clean and I LOVE the fact that the rinse seems to always perk up the coils at my roots :-D

3. This is my first time doing a DC recipe and may have to adjust the recipe for my short hair. Mixing it up was no problem. The problem, I get easily distracted and let it sit too long. Went from a nice thick consistency to very very runny. And, I let my hair air dry too long after towel blotting. So as I was applying the mixture to my hair, it already felt dry and brittle. I kept applying the mixture til I could feel the slip in my hair, then added my caps back. Application may have been too much, very drippy and have a LOT left over.

4. L: fresh rinsed wet hair, pick out some egg

    O: Sunny Isle JBCO, topical applied

    C: Cantu Shea Butter Leave In Conditioner

My hair doesn't feel dry or brittle, but it does feel as if it is taking to the added moisture. Sometime I will get the ends trimmed to remove some of the fuzz and see the difference in the new maintenance plan.

Thank you for viewing and Take Back Your Mane Control! ~ Miss EM

JBCO Challenge Day 1 & Day 2

last nights twist up

JBCO

Day 1~ Began my challenge last night. Yay! Im using Sunny Isle Jamaican Black Castor Oil (JBCO). I poured about and ounce into a container. Its got a pretty rich caramel color. Smell is a nice sweet fruity nut smell. It actually kinda wakens the senses :-) Making me hungry, too, lol!

I parted, combed, and detangled my hair into five sections, misting each section before applying the JBCO. A little goes a LONG way! Now because my hair is uneven and still quite short in the back and sides, I finished off with some semi-thick small twists and covered with a satin bonnet. It feels so weird having somewhat large gaps between twists. And the satin bonnet has been the only wrap/protective style that stays while I sleep! Hurray!

I didn't take my twists down, left them as is and just covered with a knit cap as style for church. Even I have to say I was very pleased with the very clean, toned down, Bohemian look.

twists & scalp still moisturized

Day 2~ Since it is Sunday, I've chosen not to do too much with my hair tonight. My hair is still twisted up. I have chosen to only use the JBCO on the parts of my twisted sections, front, side, and back edges, remembering to massage my scalp as I applied. It kinda feels like it helps to exfoliate as well as encourage blood circulation. I even applied some to my eyebrows  to also gauge the promotion of growth and actually 'have' some eyebrows, lol!

I must admit, I hadn't co-washed or pre-poo'd for a couple of days, and after last nights prep, my twists and hair are holding up and very moisturized. I'm quite curious how long the moisture retains itself? 

Im not gonna push it. For my regimen, I will do a basic ACV rinse & cowash (CW) just to prevent any potential build up, followed by a DC and hot oil treatment (HOT), all this week.

Thank you for viewing and Take Back Your Mane Control! ~ Miss EM

I'm Ready for a Challenge!!!!

Hey!! Im Back!! Ive been a bit discouraged since my last post. I know. I had fallen back into that "its too much work" mode. And a lot has to do with my personal life recently being an emotional roller coaster as of late. 
It always seems that nothing is going right or you are always in the wrong, making it very difficult to divulge your focus elsewhere, where it is truly needed. At my last Ladies Bible Study, we kinda touched on this subject in our discussion. As women, we naturally are brought up to multitask, assist, advise and make amends in almost everything we do in work, family, and home. Naturally, we have a tendency to focus or pinpoint what is not quite right until we figure out what is odd about it in the first place. Men, sometimes I wish I had their focus, naturally see the problem and immediately tend to fixing it, asking questions later, lol! 
Well, that's life! And just about anything and sometimes everything else takes a back simmer. In my case, its beauty and regime. Many friends tell me I got it or its potential "if you do this...". I never had the need to see it in myself, but always noticed when someone would point out my hair and either like or scrutinize it. 
Over 30 and a single mom, I still have my crush moments and want to be recognized and all ideas end at the pinnacle of my head. But I learned a long time ago outward appearance does not count for much if your inward appearance (and intellect) is not sought after, too. Therefore, the love I put into my head is for me and myself first and only. Its my pride and joy. I also find that my love for my hair reflects how I see respect for myself, hold the last vestige of innocence, and value what makes me me.

So, On With IT!! I've registered for KinkyCurlyCoilyMe (KCCM) Castor Oil Winter Hair Challenge!!!

Im so excited and today is the first check-in day of the challenge! I just wanted to share with you the questions and my answers to this check-in:

1. How long have you been natural? Did you Big Chop or Transition? Why did you choose this method? If you are not natural, do you think it is something you would consider in your future, why/why not?

2. Is this your first time participating in the Castor Oil Challenge?

3. What is motivating you to participate in this challenge?

1. I have been natural, ive calculated, a little over 13yrs. My hair had been relaxed since i was a child, so i think when i finally BC, i was tired of all the breakage and maintenance and bleached and dyed the ends of my TWA a bright electric blue. :-D it wasnt really a choice, i just did it. Wasnt really into fashion or styles, so it didnt matter to me cuz i wasnt all routine with taking care of my hair.

2. Yes, this will be my first time participating in the and any hair challenge. ive tried on my own and knew only to oil my head. didnt work cuz i thought it too much work.

3. i like this challenge cuz i will be held accountable by others. plus, my hair has been short all my life, even with relaxer. I've only experienced it long, to my shoulders, once in my life. I would like that experience again and then some. I want to know that i can achieve diversity with my hair beyond what i currently can.

Today is the first day i am applying the castor oil to my hair and scalp! Yay! So excited!! I started my own blog when i decided to start caring for my natural hair. Its "Mane Control" at:http://exewoods.blogspot.com/
Ive been discouraged, so i hope i can document my check-ins and routine there as well. Id appreciate the help in accountability, ladies!!

Here is an updated pic, before I start applying the Jamaican Black Castor Oil~

Beginning/Before/Start

Anyone who has been keeping up with my posts or checking in or wanting some help in some way, this is a great way to start at the basics of scalp and hair health and maintenance. Come, try it along with me, start where ever you can and work your way out.

Thank you for viewing and Take Back Your Mane Control!